Seduction is a wonderful game. This involves employing some amount of touching to get the girl interested. Picking up a girl is difficult without having first established mutual tactility. This is one of the great challenges when picking up women--since not all will not respond positively and may not even be open to your touching. How does one approach a girl to establish physical closeness without making the girl too uncomfortable?
Too many times men just go at it and end up freaking the girl out. A too aggressive attempt to physical closeness will not fair well with girls.
Some men will not risk putting a girl off so they do not go about touching them. With this, men are misconstrued that they are not interested, when in fact they are; they are misconstrued to be timid to make the move, when in fact they are really not. To avoid being thought of by girls to be either of these categories, how do men proceed then?
In order to not appear disrespectful to girls, here are a few basic procedures you can follow. This allows you to appear confident and being able to get away with some casual, relaxed physical contact. In this way, the girls will not feel cheap with your approach since you are respecting their personal boundaries as well.
1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But thats simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something.
By touching the outside of her arms, you are merely being casual and you are not crossing the boundary towards over aggressiveness. Tapping or touching the outside of her arms will be effective in giving a clear signal that you are fond of her and you are interested--nothing more. Do this and see the results.
2. Having already talked with her for some time, don't do without the casual touching. This will increase the level of closeness each feels for the other. More so, the physical attraction is heightened as time passes by. So do this correctly and you will increase your chances of success. You can use what has been called Stealth Tactility to proceed effectively.
Stealth tactility is done by making casual physical contact with a girl in a disguised fashion. You can employ this, for example, when she needs directions in a bar. You proceed by placing your hand on her shoulder, keeping her close to your body, while pointing the way. When done right, the level of closeness will be heightened and each will feel some degree of desire for the other.
3. As a last point, always end a conversation with a close physical contact. You can do this after exchanging numbers or saying goodbye. Give her a kiss on the cheek as you go.
Some men think that having secured a second date is already enough. Well, most of the times it is. But if you really want to leave a lasting impression, you should leave her a kiss as you go--just to give her something to think about on the next date. It is always to your advantage to play some psychology a little so that she will consistently think about you. - 33385
Too many times men just go at it and end up freaking the girl out. A too aggressive attempt to physical closeness will not fair well with girls.
Some men will not risk putting a girl off so they do not go about touching them. With this, men are misconstrued that they are not interested, when in fact they are; they are misconstrued to be timid to make the move, when in fact they are really not. To avoid being thought of by girls to be either of these categories, how do men proceed then?
In order to not appear disrespectful to girls, here are a few basic procedures you can follow. This allows you to appear confident and being able to get away with some casual, relaxed physical contact. In this way, the girls will not feel cheap with your approach since you are respecting their personal boundaries as well.
1. Many men think that touching a girl in any way when they first meet them is an absolute no-no. But thats simply not true. To form a positive, strong first impression and create an immediate bond with a girl when you first introduce yourself or get talking, casually and gently touch the outside of her right arm while at the same time verbally expressing something.
By touching the outside of her arms, you are merely being casual and you are not crossing the boundary towards over aggressiveness. Tapping or touching the outside of her arms will be effective in giving a clear signal that you are fond of her and you are interested--nothing more. Do this and see the results.
2. Having already talked with her for some time, don't do without the casual touching. This will increase the level of closeness each feels for the other. More so, the physical attraction is heightened as time passes by. So do this correctly and you will increase your chances of success. You can use what has been called Stealth Tactility to proceed effectively.
Stealth tactility is done by making casual physical contact with a girl in a disguised fashion. You can employ this, for example, when she needs directions in a bar. You proceed by placing your hand on her shoulder, keeping her close to your body, while pointing the way. When done right, the level of closeness will be heightened and each will feel some degree of desire for the other.
3. As a last point, always end a conversation with a close physical contact. You can do this after exchanging numbers or saying goodbye. Give her a kiss on the cheek as you go.
Some men think that having secured a second date is already enough. Well, most of the times it is. But if you really want to leave a lasting impression, you should leave her a kiss as you go--just to give her something to think about on the next date. It is always to your advantage to play some psychology a little so that she will consistently think about you. - 33385
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