Men can be so much trouble for a woman. Of course, much of this frustration comes from the fact that us men and women just don't have a very good understanding of each other. This conflict becomes most apparent after a break up, where a woman is often left feeling very hurt and confused. If you're sick of being lonely and feel like you want your ex boyfriend back, listen up because I'm going to give you some advice.
Okay, the first thing you want to do is something that I'm sure goes without saying. In fact, you've probably already done this. Just picture your life for a moment without this guy, your future. Do you see yourself happy in the long run, or is he the one you really want?
If he's truly one of the good ones and you want nothing more than to just be happy with him, then perhaps you had something real and somewhere along the line it got murky and now you're broken up. Now, I want you to think about something.
Why did your boyfriend get together with you in the first place? It was because he felt strong emotions around you and you felt strong emotions around him! If you're anything like most couples, you found that you just couldn't spend much time apart without at least thinking of each other. This is often referred to as "chemistry", a "spark", a "flame", or indeed, "love."
Sadly, if you've broken up and he doesn't seem to be trying as hard as you are to get back together, then the passion he once had for you has become weak.
My point is that if you really want your boyfriend back, then you have to begin to focus on rebuilding that lost spark of attraction. You can't convince your ex boyfriend to come back to you; he left you for emotional reasons. Recharging his feelings for you is the key. - 33385
Okay, the first thing you want to do is something that I'm sure goes without saying. In fact, you've probably already done this. Just picture your life for a moment without this guy, your future. Do you see yourself happy in the long run, or is he the one you really want?
If he's truly one of the good ones and you want nothing more than to just be happy with him, then perhaps you had something real and somewhere along the line it got murky and now you're broken up. Now, I want you to think about something.
Why did your boyfriend get together with you in the first place? It was because he felt strong emotions around you and you felt strong emotions around him! If you're anything like most couples, you found that you just couldn't spend much time apart without at least thinking of each other. This is often referred to as "chemistry", a "spark", a "flame", or indeed, "love."
Sadly, if you've broken up and he doesn't seem to be trying as hard as you are to get back together, then the passion he once had for you has become weak.
My point is that if you really want your boyfriend back, then you have to begin to focus on rebuilding that lost spark of attraction. You can't convince your ex boyfriend to come back to you; he left you for emotional reasons. Recharging his feelings for you is the key. - 33385
About the Author:
There's actually a book written specifically for women with you in mind. It's called How Do I Get Him Back by Bob Grant. It's well worth your money and time.
