Flirting with girls is fun. But it doesn't have to be mysterious. Here are three main ways to flirt wtih women.
You can take the initiative and just say something flirty.
Alternatively, you can appear to be much more spontaneous by waiting for her to say something that you are ready for, and then shooting back a flirty response that takes them by surprise.
And you can bait them into doing something that will set up one of your pre-planned responses.
Here's more detail about each kind of flirting:
PROACTIVE FLIRTING: This is when you initiate some flirtatious behavior or banter. You might bump into her, or look at her funny, or call her a silly name, or make a playfully arrogant statement about yourself. Active flirting can be very effective, if she's in a receptive frame of mind.
TRIGGER BANTER: Trigger banter is basically this: you wait for a situation to happen. For instance, she could say or do something. then you deliver a flirty line that you've already prepared for situations like this. You can also just respond to her spontaneously. But it's easier to be prepared. Here's an example. Suppose she bends down to tie her shoe near you. You could say "Oh, you don't have to bow down before me like that. There are other ways to show your appreciation [smile]". The downside is that she doesn't always say or do things that match your pre-planned responses.
SET-UP FLIRTING: Of course, if you want to look spontaneous, and you don't want to wait for a girl to say or do something you have a pre-planned response for, you can always bait her into doing something that will set up a flirty response. For instance, you could bait her into bragging about herself by asking her a question like "so, what makes you so special?" Then let her brag. And then hit her with your pre-planned bragging banter line.
If you want to learn more about all these methods of flirting, pick up a copy of the book "Flirting Deconstructed". - 33385
You can take the initiative and just say something flirty.
Alternatively, you can appear to be much more spontaneous by waiting for her to say something that you are ready for, and then shooting back a flirty response that takes them by surprise.
And you can bait them into doing something that will set up one of your pre-planned responses.
Here's more detail about each kind of flirting:
PROACTIVE FLIRTING: This is when you initiate some flirtatious behavior or banter. You might bump into her, or look at her funny, or call her a silly name, or make a playfully arrogant statement about yourself. Active flirting can be very effective, if she's in a receptive frame of mind.
TRIGGER BANTER: Trigger banter is basically this: you wait for a situation to happen. For instance, she could say or do something. then you deliver a flirty line that you've already prepared for situations like this. You can also just respond to her spontaneously. But it's easier to be prepared. Here's an example. Suppose she bends down to tie her shoe near you. You could say "Oh, you don't have to bow down before me like that. There are other ways to show your appreciation [smile]". The downside is that she doesn't always say or do things that match your pre-planned responses.
SET-UP FLIRTING: Of course, if you want to look spontaneous, and you don't want to wait for a girl to say or do something you have a pre-planned response for, you can always bait her into doing something that will set up a flirty response. For instance, you could bait her into bragging about herself by asking her a question like "so, what makes you so special?" Then let her brag. And then hit her with your pre-planned bragging banter line.
If you want to learn more about all these methods of flirting, pick up a copy of the book "Flirting Deconstructed". - 33385
About the Author:
Tyler Paxon teaches guys How To Flirt With girls. And he teaches girls how to flirt with guys. Discover your flirting IQ with his free flirting assessment at http://how2flirt.com
