Have you ever heard someone say that you have to make sure every single thing you say to a girl has to be unexpected or out of the ordinary when you first meet her, or she'll lose interest?
I have a different view. I think you can use ordinary boring conversational topics to your advantage, if you do it right. And I'll teach you how to do it right.
What are the "ordinary" questions we're talking about?
What's your occupation?
Are you in school?
Do you have kids?
How long have you lived here?
Of course you don't want to ask question after question like this, or she'll feel like she's on a job interview. But there's a right way to go about asking these questions and still flirt well.
Here's the key principle:
ORDINARY QUESTION FLIRTING PRINCIPLE: When you ask an "ordinary question", make sure you PLAY with her response.
I will often, very early in the conversation, ask a woman what she does for a living, or, ifshe's in school, I'll ask her what she's studying.
But after I get a response from her, I get playful with her response.
Like this:
If she says she walks dogs for a living, I'll say "Shoot, I was going to bring my dog to the coffee shop today, but decided not to. You would have totally walked my dog all over the coffee shop, right?"
She laughs. She feels like you value her for something other than her looks. And you frame the interaction as one of her being ready to SERVE you in some way.
This approach will work almost every time. And it's fun.
Take this approach for a spin. Use it on women you're interested in, and even one's you're not interested in. It doesn't hurt to get the practice in, and put a smile on someone's face.
Use it with store clerks, your aunts at the family reunion, little old ladies. They all love it! - 33385
I have a different view. I think you can use ordinary boring conversational topics to your advantage, if you do it right. And I'll teach you how to do it right.
What are the "ordinary" questions we're talking about?
What's your occupation?
Are you in school?
Do you have kids?
How long have you lived here?
Of course you don't want to ask question after question like this, or she'll feel like she's on a job interview. But there's a right way to go about asking these questions and still flirt well.
Here's the key principle:
ORDINARY QUESTION FLIRTING PRINCIPLE: When you ask an "ordinary question", make sure you PLAY with her response.
I will often, very early in the conversation, ask a woman what she does for a living, or, ifshe's in school, I'll ask her what she's studying.
But after I get a response from her, I get playful with her response.
Like this:
If she says she walks dogs for a living, I'll say "Shoot, I was going to bring my dog to the coffee shop today, but decided not to. You would have totally walked my dog all over the coffee shop, right?"
She laughs. She feels like you value her for something other than her looks. And you frame the interaction as one of her being ready to SERVE you in some way.
This approach will work almost every time. And it's fun.
Take this approach for a spin. Use it on women you're interested in, and even one's you're not interested in. It doesn't hurt to get the practice in, and put a smile on someone's face.
Use it with store clerks, your aunts at the family reunion, little old ladies. They all love it! - 33385
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